
Interviewee: Me (Question #4)
October 29, 2007Noodle asks, Has the “blogging experience” been what you wanted and expected? Is there anything you would change if you could?
Well, where to start? Since I first began blogging with no real expectations or desires (other than a constructive way to spend my time), I guess it has been what I wanted and expected. The most I can do is offer a few observations about the ways in which blogging has surprised me…
When I switched my blog host to shake off some unpleasant folks who were stalking me on Blogger, I chose WordPress because I liked the way that some of the WordPress blogs I’d read (Self Portrait Challenge and Scrapalicious to name but two) were layed out. I also admired some TypePad blogs, but they cost money and I definitely wanted something free. At the time Blogger didn’t offer categories/labels, and being the borderline OCD chick that I am, I was totally coveting this feature.
So, faced with a choice of WordPress (free) or TypePad (not free), I chose WordPress. (Duh!) I had no idea that, for whatever reason, WordPress blogs are drawn to search engines like moths to a flame. I started getting traffic, and lots of it. That was a big surprise, and certainly not something I had expected. After all, my whole purpose in switching to WordPress was to regain some anonymity, not introduce myself to the world!
Another surprise: people I don’t know read my blog regularly. And there are people whom I do know, people who are not in my family or my closest circle of friends, reading my blog regularly. Every time I get a comment that starts off something like, “I’ve never commented before, but I read your blog all the time,” I don’t know whether to cringe or cheer. I didn’t start this blog for an audience and still don’t intend it to be, but I don’t really mind. Naturally, it’s flattering to think that someone wants to hear what I’ve got to say, even if it is mundane, trivial stuff most of the time. However, since I tend to be introverted in person, it’s still a little weird.
So, what would I change?
- I would love for all blog readers to abide by the guidelines set forth in The Blogger’s Disclaimer.
- I would love for the Internet Trolls to die off altogether. It can’t happen soon enough.
- Lately I’ve been toying with the idea of taking this blog off of WordPress.com and self-hosting it, but really, that just seems way too complicated. Plus it wouldn’t be free any more. I think it would also propel me to the rank of Serious Blogger, and I just don’t think that title fits me.


I hope you don’t mind me reading your blog regularly — please let me know if you do. I know we don’t know each other but I just find what you write interesting. I just like learning about people, relationships and just different points of view.
It’s interesting to hear a mom write, just a normal person.
I don’t mind at all. Like I said, I’m flattered. Just a little surprised, too.
Hey! I’m one of those regular readers now. I really like what you have to say and am trying to comment when I can!
Hi Julie! Remember me? I love reading your blog – see what’s happening with you and the kids. You have such a way with words. And I enjoy your picture blog as well.
Tammi